Putting Myself Out There
Last year, I went to a concert alone and it was one of the highlights of my year.
It was a last-minute ticket for a somewhat fringe artist. So my friends either already had plans or simply don’t listen to that kind of music.
I have been a fan of this artist for years but had never seen them in concert. So when the opportunity presented itself, I didn’t want my self-consciousness to hold me back.
This was especially the case because I am trying to break free from my “surviving” mindset. I am not yet at the point of “thriving”, but rather am aiming for “enjoying”- this seems like a gentle, reasonable mid-term goal.
The concert itself was awesome and I had an amazing view.
But besides the music, something else was great.
Finding Your People
I noticed that a lot of other people were also there alone.
Apparently, only one person in each friend group listens to this artist. When we were all in a room together, we found we had a lot in common. We were immediately surrounded by people of common interest.
I think doing things by yourself can feel scary and intimidating. It can make you embarrassed that you don’t have friends, even though you probably have many.
But many societies are becoming less structured. People have different schedules and live in different locations. It can be hard to meet up with friends for everyday activities, let alone spontaneous ones.
Don’t let this isolation stop you from living your life, though- or you may miss out on one of the highlights of your year.
Besides, when you walk along your own path you’ll meet others who are walking along theirs. And maybe, for a while, you can walk together.
Messy Bun Book Lover